PTSD and Travel

I’m excited to share that I have an article in this month’s Edge Magazine, titled PTSD and Travel.  With the holiday season upon us, there is a lot of traveling going on. Crowds are larger, increased stress around the holidays, delays, weather issues and heightened expectations are just some of the typical stressors many of us contend with, this time of year. If someone you know or love suffers from PTSD or other mental health issues,  perhaps this article can shed some light on what they are trying to navigate (on top of the typical stressors) during this travel season.  http://www.edgemagazine.net/2016/12/ptsd-and-travel/

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I love the ocean. The sound of it feeds my soul and grounds me. I can sit and watch the ocean for hours. It touches something deep, deep inside of me. A knowing, a presence, a connectedness.

I live in Minnesota, which is nowhere near the ocean. When I get close to the ocean, and my senses begin to come alive, I know I’m now on vacation. Ahhh, vacation! I was once that person who worked to go on vacation. Road trip? Yep, I was the first person to raise my hand and jump in the car. I love to explore, I love new places, I love new people. I understand that my little corner of the world is not the be all, end all, and I want to see the world.

Then I was struck with PTSD and my whole world turned upside down. The things I did without thought have suddenly become a big production. I’m plagued with flashbacks, and my symptoms are easily triggered.

My trauma occurred over a 20-year period in many different places throughout the world. I can be triggered by certain smells, sounds, the way the wind blows, dialect, and many other things. Sometimes, that can start a flashback. Sometimes, I get disoriented and anxious, and sometimes it’s just a general feeling of knowing something’s off. When I’m at home, I can figure out ways to ground myself, get support or use one of the many tools in my distress tolerance tool-box to ride out the wave. When I travel, things are unfamiliar and it takes longer to come out of a trigger.

Another symptom of my PTSD is that I become overwhelmed in busy, loud, places — restaurants, for example. It’s very easy for me to get flooded by too many menu choices and a voracious appetite can become non-existent. Before, PTSD, I loved trying new food and going to restaurants that I wouldn’t have visited in my hometown.

Airports are triggering for me. The noise, the crowds, the upheaval, the lines. The anticipation of sitting in a tiny chair for a four-hour flight. The same anxiety that most others feel at airports is more pronounced for me. My anxiety is ramped up because my perpetrators often put me on a plane and sent me all over the world. So just by walking into an airport, it’s triggering. And yet, I love the speediness of getting to your vacation destination by flying, and how wonderful to be in this machine that flies in the sky. It’s part of the travel experience.

My support system is different when I travel. For my family, it’s often a good respite for them when I go out of town for a few days. It’s not an easy decision for them to let me go off without one of them accompanying me. So, a lot of moving parts must happen before I can hop on the plane. My support works together to provide text, phone or FaceTime calls with regular check-ins. I must be mindful and respect the times that are available, especially with a time change. It feels uncomfortable for me to know that I require this support.

I just want to jump on a plane, hide out at a beach for a few days and think, write, read and relax. It’s part of my fantasy travel experience. But the extra support is part of the give and take if I’m to travel right now, and I’m grateful for the opportunity and the support.

I understand that traveling with all my PTSD symptoms front and center is a huge challenge. But, I’m determined to have a great time, get my spirit renewed at the ocean, or spend some wonderful girl-time with a good friend. My intention is to look at the beautiful palm trees and fill my senses with the healing ocean air, and for just a few perfect moments, breathe with ease.

Traveling with PTSD is certainly a challenge, but not impossible.

 

 

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Thank you for reading my memoir, Untangled, A Story of Resilience, Courage, and Triumph

http://www.amazon.com/Untangled-story-resilience-courage-triumph/dp/1514213222

https://www.amazon.com/Untangled-story-resilience-courage-triumph-ebook/dp/B013XA4856

 

 

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12 thoughts on “PTSD and Travel

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  2. Ruth-Anne West December 5, 2016 / 10:54 pm

    Congratulations! Thoughtful advice on traveling with PTSD. You’re absolutely right, it can be a challenge but it’s not impossible.

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  3. Alexis Rose December 3, 2016 / 8:40 pm

    Isn’t that cool?!? Thats what The Edge magazine had accompanying the article.

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  4. Alexis Rose December 3, 2016 / 8:39 pm

    Thank you, Theseus! Absolutely you will have the support system that is most helpful for you. Its cool that on our blogs we can support each other too. Have a great weekend. 🙂 Alexis

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  5. fightingtheminotaur December 3, 2016 / 7:29 pm

    Excellent entry! Really enjoyable.

    How cool is it that you seem to have built such a support system. I envy you to a certain extent, but that also means that it’s something I can strive for myself. Your writing about it is an example that such things are possible. I’m so glad that you’ve been able to find your way as much as you have. It must have taken a lot of work and effort to get to where you seem to be.

    I like to see people succeed and I’m really happy for you.

    Be well,
    Theseus

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  6. K E Garland December 2, 2016 / 4:25 pm

    Woo-hoo! Congrats on the publication and your soon-to-be traveling time. Sending you light, love and peace Alexis!

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  7. Rosie Burnham December 2, 2016 / 3:22 pm

    Great blog – really enjoyed reading it. Safe travels x

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